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Meeting with Other
Swingers
By Julia
Tanner
You’ve scoured the internet, gone to a few swingers clubs
and found a great couple or a few couples. What do you do
now?
Suddenly, it can feel like a
first date all over again. And it should in many respects.
You want to impress the other couple, while also seeing if
you can get along.
Before you go
Setting up a meeting in a
non-sexual environment is the best place to begin. If
you’ve met in a swingers club, you still want to take this
step to see the other couple in a more ‘normal’ setting.
Talk about where you both
want to meet. You may want to find somewhere that will allow
you to talk openly without worrying about others listening.
It’s time to look pretty
now. Men, you need to look nice. This means dress shoes and
dress pants. You can wear a nice shirt as well. I don’t
think that a jacket or tie is necessary, unless the
restaurant or meeting place is more upscale. And for the
women, you will want to dress to impress. Don’t be afraid
to show off your best assets, without looking too
provocative. Again, the setting can help to determine what
you will want to wear. You want to blend in with everyone
else.
Take showers (I hope that I
didn’t have to say that) and wear a little cologne or
perfume. Women, put on nice makeup and jewelry. Men, take
the time to trim your facial hair (if you have any). Arrive
on time.
When you’re there
You’ve all sat down,
ordered some drinks and are starting to talk. At this point,
you generally want to talk about everyday things—your
jobs, your families, etc. If you feel uncomfortable sharing
something, then you don’t have to. What’s important at
this stage is seeing how you communicate.
If you’re sitting in
silence, then it might not be a good sign for a swinging
relationship. Likewise, if you can only talk to each other
while drinking heavily, that too may not be a good sign.
Watch the alcohol during the first few meetings.
You will generally be able to
see if this is a couple for you because you’ll feel like
friends, rather than strangers. And if it doesn’t work
out, that’s okay, but be clear if you’re not interested
at that point.
If all goes well…
This is the point where your
open communication will come into play. If you’re feeling
good about each other and you want more, then start talking
about it. Talk about what you want in a swinging
relationship and see where the conversation goes. You may
make plans for a more private meeting the next time.
Discuss rules that you may
want to make and the terms of protection (both birth and
STD) for everyone. This is no time to be shy, especially
when you’re talking about your health and the health of
someone else.
If you’re satisfied with
your talk, then you can figure out your next meeting.
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